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Originally Posted by NemesisDesign

The only thing I feel like I can contribute is that in the future, if you aren't attracted or interested in a guy at all, say no and say it right away. Don't be an asshole about it but its better to get that out early. I can't speak for everyone but for me, there is an objective to dating and if that's never going to happen its kind of shitty to imply that it might. Not saying you did it in this case but plenty of people do and its really aggrivating.

I can understand how annoying it is, which is why I want to sort of plan accordingly so I can avoid these awkward situations such as this.

I want to say no without looking like a ****, because I definitely don't like the idea of basically looking like i'm taking some poor bastard for a ride and also, looking like a ****.